Love Logica !!
'Love' is the most amazing feeling one can have.It fills your stomach with miniscule jitters that rolls up throughout your body and makes you thrill.All you want is the moment to catch up with your loved one.At every second you want to be with the person for whom you can do anything.It makes you feel highly ecstatic.One starts feeling the moments of togetherness with one's soulmate -on assumption basis.All the wanna be wonderful moments from looking into one's eye to holding hands to hugging to kissing to laying down starts circulating in one's head.All one want is those alluring moments.
One always look for a reason to spend time with one's soulmate.The beautiful time spend together bolsters the feeling of togetherness then comes the consent from other half's side(if one is lucky or unlucky :P ). This way one starts loving the love.One starts feeling the love.One starts enjoying the love.All the wonderful moments lining up in one's head start falling in the realm of reality.And the intensity of ecstasy rises to its maximum position and there it stagnates because it has reached its limit.It cannot go further.It has a finite nature.The indefinite love cannot happen between two materialistic persons.As the need arises so does the love and that's how 'love' continue to exist in one's life.
They say love is always for the other person but it doesn't seem to me.Love is always been used by man for fulfilling his fantasies or desires or necessities.Those who do that with only one person are called good lovers(which are rare nowadays :P ). Those who marry their loved ones are called good lovers.Those who love their married partner are good lovers.And those who do exactly the opposite are ridiculed by the society and are considered to be bad lovers.Why the good lovers are declining ? Why one can't have only one person to seek happiness?
There are obsolete traditional practices followed across India which are not letting flourish good lovers.The numbers are diminishing every now and then.Society with its orthodox rules of caste based system do not let the people live their lives setting aside the logistics which are easy to follow and understand.Logistics simply say if two people love each other and they want to carry it further along with family's blessings they should be allowed to do because that would make everyone around them happy.As rightly said by the president of love commandos that traditional practices are bound to change and this new logistic should become the new tradition.Now that's one aspect.There is another aspect too.Even if we do not follow the old traditional practices.If we allow the love to grow and let it flourish then can it flourish? can we produce more good lovers? I doubt.
The youth of the country is progressing.It is fine to have a girlfriend/boyfirend.It is fine to have sex before marriage.It is fine to have a relationship just for fun.And even if two people commit they both somehow remain unsure whether they can carry it to a bigger level.It is fine to disguise the truth from oneself to seek pleasure.If one is always bound to remain unsure to find the right person how can one be sure of having the true love ? Strain come.Stress comes.Predicaments come.The beautiful thread of love tends to break.And then the struggle to keep it exacerbates the situation.Things become worsen.With the thread at times man himself breaks.The whole love thing ramshackle the human being.Too many relationships.Too many breakups.Less number of successful marriages.More than one realtionship at the same time.Serenity of love has been ravaged.Are we making progress in love? I doubt.
Can love be given logical dimension? Can it be more logically evaluated rather than giving to temptations or so called heart says thing ? We are always told that love happens from heart and we believe that.We give in to temptations and think that this is what our heart says.We always try to seek pleasure overlooking the incompatible traits in people which in turn cause the much less expected and more transpiring stress and sorrows.I believe :
Love is destroying one's ego for one's soulmate and not supporting each others's.
Love is defining the demarcations.
Love is sticking to moral values(first they should be created :P).
Love is trust.Love is Honesty.
Love is oneness.Love is togetherness.Love is unity.
Love is not giving in to temptations.It's about controlling them.
Love is not about doing things for your beloved one.It's about doing the right things.
Love is understanding.
And it's important to understand the meaning of love to use it to have more happiness and less sorrows.
P.S : Log kehte hai phool ke sath kaante hote ha par kabhi kabhi lagta hai yeh kaante 'fool' ke sath zyada hote hai :)
'Love' is the most amazing feeling one can have.It fills your stomach with miniscule jitters that rolls up throughout your body and makes you thrill.All you want is the moment to catch up with your loved one.At every second you want to be with the person for whom you can do anything.It makes you feel highly ecstatic.One starts feeling the moments of togetherness with one's soulmate -on assumption basis.All the wanna be wonderful moments from looking into one's eye to holding hands to hugging to kissing to laying down starts circulating in one's head.All one want is those alluring moments.
One always look for a reason to spend time with one's soulmate.The beautiful time spend together bolsters the feeling of togetherness then comes the consent from other half's side(if one is lucky or unlucky :P ). This way one starts loving the love.One starts feeling the love.One starts enjoying the love.All the wonderful moments lining up in one's head start falling in the realm of reality.And the intensity of ecstasy rises to its maximum position and there it stagnates because it has reached its limit.It cannot go further.It has a finite nature.The indefinite love cannot happen between two materialistic persons.As the need arises so does the love and that's how 'love' continue to exist in one's life.
They say love is always for the other person but it doesn't seem to me.Love is always been used by man for fulfilling his fantasies or desires or necessities.Those who do that with only one person are called good lovers(which are rare nowadays :P ). Those who marry their loved ones are called good lovers.Those who love their married partner are good lovers.And those who do exactly the opposite are ridiculed by the society and are considered to be bad lovers.Why the good lovers are declining ? Why one can't have only one person to seek happiness?
There are obsolete traditional practices followed across India which are not letting flourish good lovers.The numbers are diminishing every now and then.Society with its orthodox rules of caste based system do not let the people live their lives setting aside the logistics which are easy to follow and understand.Logistics simply say if two people love each other and they want to carry it further along with family's blessings they should be allowed to do because that would make everyone around them happy.As rightly said by the president of love commandos that traditional practices are bound to change and this new logistic should become the new tradition.Now that's one aspect.There is another aspect too.Even if we do not follow the old traditional practices.If we allow the love to grow and let it flourish then can it flourish? can we produce more good lovers? I doubt.
The youth of the country is progressing.It is fine to have a girlfriend/boyfirend.It is fine to have sex before marriage.It is fine to have a relationship just for fun.And even if two people commit they both somehow remain unsure whether they can carry it to a bigger level.It is fine to disguise the truth from oneself to seek pleasure.If one is always bound to remain unsure to find the right person how can one be sure of having the true love ? Strain come.Stress comes.Predicaments come.The beautiful thread of love tends to break.And then the struggle to keep it exacerbates the situation.Things become worsen.With the thread at times man himself breaks.The whole love thing ramshackle the human being.Too many relationships.Too many breakups.Less number of successful marriages.More than one realtionship at the same time.Serenity of love has been ravaged.Are we making progress in love? I doubt.
Can love be given logical dimension? Can it be more logically evaluated rather than giving to temptations or so called heart says thing ? We are always told that love happens from heart and we believe that.We give in to temptations and think that this is what our heart says.We always try to seek pleasure overlooking the incompatible traits in people which in turn cause the much less expected and more transpiring stress and sorrows.I believe :
Love is destroying one's ego for one's soulmate and not supporting each others's.
Love is defining the demarcations.
Love is sticking to moral values(first they should be created :P).
Love is trust.Love is Honesty.
Love is oneness.Love is togetherness.Love is unity.
Love is not giving in to temptations.It's about controlling them.
Love is not about doing things for your beloved one.It's about doing the right things.
Love is understanding.
And it's important to understand the meaning of love to use it to have more happiness and less sorrows.
P.S : Log kehte hai phool ke sath kaante hote ha par kabhi kabhi lagta hai yeh kaante 'fool' ke sath zyada hote hai :)
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